Two things:
1. The point-loading on some lubricated surfaces requires higher shear stability than multi-grade oils can handle (with the exception of a few synthetics, such as Delvac-1) Using multi-grade oils will EAT CAMS. Camshafts are a royal bitch to get in and out of these engines. 'Nuff said.
2. The sulfated ash issue is huge. Exhaust valve deposits will lead to exhaust valve leaks, and those lead directly to burned exhaust valves. That ends up costing you a cylinder head.
I'm sure your points are good ones, but both of these items are issues with any engine - I'd think that the cam loading on a performance-oriented gas engine is much higher than it is on these DDs. Cam loading is determined by the tension of the valve springs which is, in turn, determined by the max RPM of the engine. High RPM engines need higher tension springs. I wouldn't think that an engine with a max RPM of 2500 RPM needs much of a spring to follow the cam. Although, as I think about it, it is quite a heavy valve train which, in turn, would require more spring tension. But is it notably heavier than a 4 stroke diesel?
Certainly exhaust valve deposits can be a big problem but if they are caused by lubricating oil, it seems to me it's the result of poor valve seals and bad valve guides. I realize that DDs are anything but "tightly clearanced" so perhaps the requirement for CF2 has more to do with loose clearances than anything else.
In any case, I am just curious. I am not suggesting and would never use un-approved oils.